Friday, February 10, 2012

Reflections

Hi Lisfranc world.  I hope everybody is coping as we cruise through what is certainly a tepid mid-winter here in New England. Today my post is not about Lisfranc, but about perspective.  I have been meaning to post this but have been busy with work and life.  Last week, I ran into some friends at the local pub.  One of which, I do not know well, but know that she had been diagnosed with stage 3 cancer.  At first I did not think it was her - as I know that she had just had breast surgery, etc.  When I realized it was her, I could not believe that she was out only a few weeks post surgery - having dinner and drinks with friends.  I was glad to see that she was in such good spirits and having a good time.  At one point, after I had sat down to eat, I saw that my wife had approached her - and they were exchanged in a conversation and then an embrace.  I was struck by the warmth coming from my wife - a fellow sister to this woman - whom my wife did not really know very well - but somehow, this event had brought them together - and it made me really feel good inside - and made me reflect on how blessed I was.   You see - in the end - we really can't predict what happens to us in life - and we really have no control.  When I first went over to their table to talk they were commenting on how well I was getting along after my injury.   Really - who cares.   Sometimes - there are far more serious things that happen in our lives - and some of us face these very terrible realities with a lot of courage and strength, and it makes me realize.....  how lucky I really am.

3 comments:

  1. Amen to that. Being able to stand on two feet in the shower, walk across a room, go up or down stairs is such a blessing. I try to remember such gifts when I'm having a sore/weak foot day. Life is sweet -- even without to perfect feet.

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  2. I hear ya Glen. 2011 was a bad year for me. In addition to hurting my foot, four close friends of mine lost spouse or family members to cancer. I had to attend the funerals sporting crutches/cane.

    But don't sell yourself short. A Lisfranc injury may not be life threatening, but it certainly is life changing. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance to recover from this injury. Your blog certainly helped me to stay positive. I'm pretty sure it helped others as well.

    I am so glad to your recovery is going well.

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  3. Well thanks Nucklehead! I am sorry to hear you lost some friends this year. I will agree with you the experience has been life changing. I am saving that story for close to my 1 year mark. I have reflected on that for some time now - and I am sure many will agree with that future post. Hope you are healing well! Glenn

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